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TRF a cikin Tallafin 2019

'Yan jarida sun gano Gidauniyar Rahoton kuma suna fadada kalma game da aikinmu ciki har da: darussanmu game da hadarin da ake dadewa a kan batsa; da kira ga tasiri, ilimin kwakwalwa a cikin makarantu; Dole ne a horar da masu kula da lafiyar NHS a kan batutuwa ta batsa da taimakon mu bincike a kan lalata jima'i da zubar da halayen jima'i. Wannan shafin yana bayanin bayyanar mu a jaridu da kuma layi. Muna fatan za a buga wasu labarun da yawa kamar yadda 2019 ke ci gaba.

Idan ka ga wani labarin da ke nuna TRF ba a kafa shi ba, don Allah aika mana da bayanin kula game da shi ta amfani da hanyar sadarwa a kasa na wannan shafin.

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An ambaci Mary Sharpe a cikin wannan labarin mai ƙarfi game da halayen masana'antar batsa. GARGADI: wannan abun ya ƙunshi kayan da wasu masu karatu zasu iya damuwa. An buga 27 Satumba 2019.


Yadda ake lalata masu masana'antar bakin ciki

Yadda ake lalata masu masana'antar bakin ciki

Yawancin majalisu sun samar da jagora da ake zargi game da jima'i da alaƙar da ke alaƙa da yara da matasa, waɗanda suka gaza jawo hankulan illolin lalata abubuwan batsa. Rahoton JO BARTOSCH

YAHAYA RADDI ya mutu a makon da ya gabata; Los Angeles County Coroner ta tabbatar da cewa shekarunta na 40 ne.

Ta aikata ayyukan batsa a karkashin sunan Jessica Jaymes. Mutuwar tasa tun farko ba sabon abu bane ga wadanda suke a cikin abin da ake kira "masana'antar nishaɗin matasa."

Fim din batsa na farko da Riyada ta yi a cikin Little Girl Lost, lokacin da ta kasance 16 kawai.

A yau, kamar yadda jikin Jessica Redding ta ke jiran mutuwa bayan mutuwa a Los Angeles, a kalla shafin yanar gizon majalisa a nan Burtaniya yana fada wa yara kanana wadanda suka girma sama lokacin da suke yin fim a fim din ta na farko cewa suna bukatar su shawo kan rataye su. labarin batsa.

Karamar Hukumar Warwickshire "Girmama kanka" jagora, wanda aka ba da tallafi daga Warwickshire na Lafiya Jama'a, ya taimaka ya shirya abin da ya bayyana a matsayin tatsuniyoyi game da batsa.

Warwickshire daya ne daga cikin majalisu da yawa don samar da jagora da ake zargi game da jima'i da alaƙar dangantaka da yara, matasa da matasa.

Wasu masu karatu za su yi tunanin cewa matsalar yara kallon kallon batsa ita ce, tana gurbata fahimtar su game da jima'i, da jayayya ga abin da yara maza ke yin kwaikwayon abin da suka gani da kuma lalata yara mata a makarantu (abin ban sha'awa ne. "Sa'a a kan sahu" cin zarafin jima'i a cikin makarantu ya karu da 521 cikin dari a Warwickshire tsakanin 2013-16).

Wasu kuma suna iya buga sunayen tashi cikin labiaplasties ko 40 bisa dari na mata matasa wanda ke ba da rahoton ana matsa lamba don yin jima'i, a matsayin alamun cewa batsa yana tasiri a cikin jama'a.

Dukansu ba daidai ba ne, bisa ga jagorar girmamawa, wanda ya tabbatar da ɗayan “daga cikin manyan batutuwan matasa da ke kallon batsa shine cewa ana ganin abu ne da bai kamata su zama ba.”

A yunƙurin da suke yi na nuna kamar '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '' '', 'waɗanda ke bayan irin wannan jagorar sun ci amanar kansu kamar marasa sani, masu lalata da lalata.

Masu sukar da ke ba da shawarar bayar da kallon "'Yan Lesan Wasan Wasannin Mata na Lesbian 2," "Duk Anal 3" ko "Bawa don Dare" (duk sunayen da aka fi sani da marigayi Jessica Redding) da aka ambata na iya bazatar haɓaka fahimtar yaro game da yanayin dangantakar lafiya kamar, suna a bayyane-daga-lu'u lu'u-clutching prudes waɗanda tabbas suna buƙatar kyakkyawan gani-to.

A zahiri, dalilin da yasa mata da yawa ke matukar lalacewa game da yawan lalata na batsa shine cewa ya bata zuriyar iPhone na haƙƙin haƙƙin gaske game da jima'i.

Babu wani abu da ya faru yayin tabbatarwa da matasa cewa taba al'aura bazai hana su makanta bane, kuma lalle hakan zai taimaka musu su samu nutsuwa a jikinsu.

Amma a lokacin da yarinya mai shekaru 12 ta rubuta wa Ka girmama kanka, ta damu da cewa jarabar batsa da bayyana cewa tana kallonta “a rabin daren,” amsar ba za ta gaya mata cewa batsa ba cutarwa ce ko kuma ba sake tabbatar mata cewa jima'i da zagi da aka nuna ba ita ba ce. na iya tsammanin ya girma.

A zahiri, Ka girmama kanka kauda ra'ayin da cewa batsa batsa ce ko cutarwa ne ta kowace hanya.

A cewar Mary Sharp na Gidauniyar Talla, mai ba da gudummawa ta ilimi da ke mayar da hankali kan ƙauna, jima'i da intanet, wannan ba gaskiya bane.

A cikin wata hirar da aka yi da ita a farkon wannan shekara ga Guardian, ta yi bayanin: “Yawan batsa yana canza yadda yara suke sha'awar jima'i… a wani lokacin da suka fi saurin kamuwa da cutar rashin hankali da jaraba. Yawancin jaraba da rashin lafiyar kwakwalwa suna farawa ne daga samartaka. ”

Sakamakon wannan ana iya gani a fili cikin kudaden ƙwanƙwasa ƙwanƙwasawa, wanda ya haɓaka daga ƙididdigar 2-3 na maza a ƙarƙashin 35 a 2002 zuwa kusan 30 cent tun lokacin da aka fara gudana-kyauta, batsa mai tsayi.

Wani wuri akan rukunin yanar gizon "alamar tambaya" ta gayyaci masu amfani da su zabi daga jerin abubuwanda zasu iya amsawa idan sun kama abokin aikinsu suna kallon batsa.

A zahiri mun san cewa "abokin" kallon kallon batsa na iya zama namiji, dukda cewa Ka girmama kanka da farin ciki yana tunatar da mu "duka maza da 'yan mata suna kallon batsa."

Ko ka zabi "abun lalacewa ne" ko "yana da zafi" zaɓi, amsar ita ce sanya duk wani rashin jin daɗin mutum baya ga kowa saboda "yana son cin nasara."

A bayyane, samun “ƙulli” ba shine matsalar ba, hanyar lalata batsa ta hanyar amfani da batsa ta hanyar ɗaukakar mutum.

Mai nisantar da mutane kusa, amfani da hotunan batsa a abu mai mahimmanci a cikin warwarewar dangantaka.

Tare da ziyartar shafukan intanet na batsa wadanda suka hada da na Netflix, Amazon da Twitter hade, babu shakka masana'antar yin jima'i zata tsira ba tare da taimakon dangantakar jama'a daga ayyukan Warwickshire ba.

Ban da haka, Jagorar kan Girmama kanku tana gudanar da ayyukanta na adalci a masana'antar, tana mai bayanin: "Masana'antar sana'ar jima'i tana daya daga cikin 'yan da mata ke samun kudi fiye da maza."

Ga tinyan tsiraru wannan gaskiya ne. Dauki Sheena Shaw, alal misali. Ta yi wa kanta suna kamarsarauniyar rosebudding. "

Rosebudding ita ce kalmar da ake amfani da ita a masana'antar batsa don prolapse, wanda yasa an cire dubura daga dubura.

Wannan ba matsala ba ce, kamar yadda Shaw ya bayyana a sarari: “Al'adar tana koya mana abin da ya kamata mu so da abin da bai so ba.”

Matan da ke yin wannan matsalar mai saurin motsa jiki, matsaloli na hanji da kuma yaɗuwa marasa ƙarfi.

Lokacin da Mataimakin mujallar ta tambayi Shaw game da abin da za ta iya yi idan ta ji rauni, sai ta amsa: “Babu wanda ya taɓa yin magana game da hakan. Suna sanya ka nuna alamun gogewa kafin aikata waɗannan al'amuran. Lallai kam ba za ku samu kwararrun ma'aikata ba. ”

Wataƙila ba a ba da shakku game da buƙatun jiki na batsa na yau ba, waɗanda suka bar masana'antar sun ba da rahoton cewa kwayoyi, zagi da tilastawa a tashi akwai ruwaye; yawancin mata suna wuce tsakanin watanni uku zuwa 18 kafin su fita.

Bari mu kasance masu gaskiya, babu wani abu mai karfafawa game da samun dubura ta dubura yayin duban “karuwa,” zubewa da daskare akan kyamara.

Duk da wannan mummunan yanayin da Shafin yanar gizon Ra'ayinku ya nuna "bincike ya nuna cewa a zahiri taurari na wasan batsa suna da darajar kansu da samun biyan bukata fiye da matsakaicin yawan jama'a." Ba a ambaci waɗannan karatun ba.

A cikin al'umma mai lalata da batsa, muna buƙatar zama mai gaskiya kuma mu shirya yara don abin da suke cikin duk yiwuwar za su gani akan layi kuma, cikin gaskiya, wasu jagora cikin Girmama kanku mai tausayi ne da tunani.

Amma sankantawa na masana'antar baƙin ciki da aka gina akan ɓacin ran mata da girlsan mata ba lallai ne a gafarta ba.

A kokarin da ta dace da shi, wanda ya mayar da hankali ga matasa da kuma abin da zai iya zama kamar haka, Majalisar Warwickshire County tana da haɗarin ɗaukar wani tsara don tunanin cewa cin zarafin da aka nuna a cikin batsa ba kawai al'ada bane, amma kyawawa.

Jo Bartosch darekta ne a Danna Karshe, kamfen ne don kawo karshen bukatar batsa. Da fatan za a ziyarci shafin yanar gizon ku kuma yi la'akari da bayar da gudummawa www.clickoff.org.

Mary Sharpe an ambaci shi a cikin wannan yanki daga Peter Diamond, wanda aka buga a ranar 19 Afrilu 2019.

Katolika Katolika Observer

Kwanan nan 'Block block' a Birtaniya ya yi maraba da masu neman shiga tsakani, amma da'awar Ikklisiya ta nuna damuwa game da batun kyauta.

Katolika sun yi marhabin da shekaru masu zuwa a kan batsa a Birtaniya, wanda ya kamata a aiwatar da shi a cikin watanni masu zuwa, kuma ya ce Ikilisiya na iya jagoranci magance rikici na buri.

An sanar da wannan makon cewa za a gabatar da tabbacin shekara-shekara don shafukan yanar gizo a Yuli 15.

Da zarar an gabatar, manya zasu tabbatar da cewa sun kasance a kan 18 ta hanyar rijista bayanan su ko sayen batu, don samun dama ga batsa.

Bayanan magana

Katolika da suka taimaka maganin jaraba da Ikilisiya a Scotland sun yi marhabin da tafiye-tafiye, duk da cewa suna da'awar cewa dole ne a kare 'yancin magana ta hanyar yin rajistar gwamnati.

Matt Fradd marubuci ne na Katolika kuma yayi magana game da batsa a Amurka.

Ya kwanan nan ya kaddamar da shirin sabon shiri na 21 Strive21 don ceton mutane daga mummunan buri na batsa.

"Ina farin ciki game da bankin Birtaniya," inji shi. "Ba zai dakatar da matasan da suke ƙoƙarin samun damar yin amfani da batsa ba, amma godiya muna ganin irin wannan tsari da aka gabatar.

"Ikilisiyar tana da rawar da za ta taka wajen yaki da batsa. Kamar yadda katolika Katolika ya ce, 'an halicce mu cikin siffar da kamannin Allah,' kuma saboda wannan ya canza yadda muke tunanin mutane. Ikilisiyar da ke koyarwa game da wannan batu shine cewa batsa ta bautar da mu-an kira mu mu zama mai kula da sha'awarmu. "

Lahani marar sani

Mista Fradd ya kara da cewa: "Amfani da fina-finai ya yi rudani a cikin 'yan shekarun nan kuma yawancin yara da ke da shekaru 8-12 suna kallon batsa kuma suna da alade na alade don wani abu da ba za mu san yadda za mu ciwo har sai 50 shekaru ba.

"Ina tsammanin wani abu ne da cewa a cikin shekaru 50 mutane za su girgiza mu da takaici suna cewa, 'Yaya za ku yi haka, ta yaya za ku bari mu kalli wannan kaya.'

"Wannan bala'i ne da ke jiran ya faru amma sai godiya mutane sun fara sauraro da kuma tashe tashen hankalin yara masu kallon batsa."

An yi nasarar gwagwarmaya21 a Amurka makonni biyu da suka shige, kuma ya riga ya shiga mazaunin 1,000 shiga cikin shirin jima'i, kuma wani malamin Katolika ya nuna sha'awar amfani da kayan aiki.

Yara cutar

Wani malamin Scotland wanda ke cikin aikin warkaswa ya kuma karbi duk wani ban da zai taimaka wajen jita-jitar batsa.

Canon William Fraser, Ikklesiyar Ikklisiyar Ikilisiya a Taynuilt, ya ce: "Abin takaici na ga irin rashin jin daɗin da nake yi a aikin aikin warkaswa.

"Maganar yaudara ta batsa ta zama al'ada ga wani ba kawai ta hanyar batsa kanta ba amma a matsayin abin da ya ji rauni. Wannan yana kama da kowane nau'i na jaraba ko shan giya ko kwayoyi kuma mafi sau da yawa fiye da ba idan an warkar da sashin 'ciwo' to sai ya zama sauki don magance 'al'ada.' "

Canon Fraser ya kara da cewa 'cire' wani daga zangon batsa zai iya ɗaukar wani zaman amma a cikin 'ƙananan ƙwayar' zai iya ɗaukar watanni masu yawa ko ma shekaru don magance.

"Ya kamata mu tunatar da mu cewa ikon da yake cikinmu ta wurin Yesu Almasihu ya fi kowane iko a duniya," in ji Canon Fraser, yana cewa 'Allah zai yantar da mu kamar yadda ya shafe dukan zunubi a kan giciye. '

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Porn yana da kamfanonin duniya na 75 biliyan. Wani bincike na 2016 da aka wallafa a cikin Tattalin Arzikin Tattalin Arziki ya nuna mutane da suke kallon batsa akai-akai suna da wuya su yi aure fiye da wadanda ba su da.

Mary Sharpe ita ce babban jami'in gudanarwa a The Reward Foundation, wani kyauta na ilimi wanda yake a Scotland wanda yake kallon kimiyya bayan jima'i da ƙauna.

Mista Sharpe ya ce: "Muna da cikakkiyar goyon baya ga tsarin shiga. Iyaye sukan yi tunanin batsa daidai ne kamar yadda 20 shekaru da suka wuce, amma yanzu ya fi muni. Yana motsawa da yawa tashin hankali.

"Yana da babbar tasiri a kan tunanin mutane, musamman ma matasa wadanda suka fara yin amfani da su a kan abubuwa."

Gudun Papal

Paparoma ya amince da kyautar Ms Sharpe, kuma yana aiki tare da makarantun Katolika don inganta darasin darasi ga malamai.

"Muna tsammanin sabuwar dokar ta zama mahimmanci. Ba za a magance matsalar ba, amma ilimi yana da muhimmanci a makarantu da gida, "inji ta.

"Muna samarwa da kuma bunkasa shirin darasi na makarantu a fadin Scotland, ciki har da Katolika, inda za mu kirkiro su bisa ga koyarwar Ikklisiya da kuma shirin Allah na ƙauna.

"Ikklisiya da Ikklisiya zasu iya taka rawar gani wajen magance matsalar. Yana da mahimmanci don ilmantar da Katolika a kan wannan batu kuma Ikilisiyar ba za ta iya yin addu'a irin wannan matsala za ta tafi ba - dole ne su saurara kuma suyi aiki tare da bangaskiya mai kyau kuma idan sunyi haka zasu iya jagoranci batun. "

Yin ƙarfin firist

Maryamu ta kara da cewa ana iya samun 'ikon' '' 'don yin magana game da batun ko bayar da shawarwari ga mutane game da inda zasu je taimako.

Yancin 'yancin yin jawabi duk da haka ya damu da cewa sabuwar doka za ta ga yadda ake magana da shi kyauta. Halin bana yana cikin ɓangare na kokarin gwamnati na ƙuntata abin da ya ke da la'akari da labarun labaran yanar gizo.

Wani mai magana da yawun cocin Katolika a Scotland ya ce: "Yana da muhimmanci, cewa duk wani sabon dokokin da ake zaton zai magance 'hargitsi ta yanar gizo' da kuma 'abu mai mahimmanci' yana riƙe da hakkoki na 'yanci na' yancin faɗar albarkacin baki, tunani, lamiri da kuma addini wanda ya ba da damar yin musayar ra'ayi ra'ayoyi da muhawara, ba tare da tsoro ko faranta rai ba.

"Tabbatar da lafiyar yanar gizo na yara da ƙananan kungiyoyin yana da muhimmiyar mahimmanci. Idan babu wani ma'anar halayyar 'harms' duk da haka yana da wuyar ganin yadda za a iya yin haka. "

"Izinin mai kula da masu zaman kansu mai yanke shawara don yanke shawara ko ko abun ciki yana da illa da yiwuwar hana shi, to ka'ida zata iya haifar da ƙuntatawa akan maganganun addinai."

SCES

Scotland ta Katolika mahaifiyar jiki ya maraba da batsa block.

Jo Soares, shugaban kungiyar iyayen mata na Katolika na Katolika, ya ce: "Sabuwar dokar ya sa ya fi wuya ga yara su sami damar yin jima'i a yanar gizo ta hanyar layi ko gwaji.

"Yana da mahimmanci mu ƙuntata abubuwan da ke cikin batsa don kada 'ya'yanmu su ci gaba da halayyar rashin haɓaka ga halayen jima'i da kuma yarda ko ra'ayi mara kyau game da dangantaka da jikin mutum.

"Harkokin lalata hotuna ta yanar gizo ga manya zai sa ya zama mai wuyar wahalar da 'ya'yanmu zuwa kayan da ke koyarwa bisa ga imani da mutunci ga kowane mutum."

Viagra a matsayin magani na rayuwa ya ga Maryamu Sharpe da aka ambata a cikin wannan labarin rayuwar Huffpost daga 3 Afrilu 2019.

'Sun Dauke shi Kafin Zuwa Kungiya': Dalilin da yasa ake Amfani da Viagra Ta Wani Sabon Salo

Ba wai kawai magani ne ga maza mazan ba, 'Ya'ya maza suna amfani da Viagra ta annashuwa a cikin firayiminsu. Daga

Wannan ne karo na uku da Alex * yayi ƙoƙarin saka kwaroron roba kuma ya gaza. Duk da kasancewar sa da sanin cewa wannan shine damar sa ta damar yin jima'i da macen da ya sadu da safiyar wannan daren, ba zai iya tsayawa kai tsaye ba. Duk yadda kwakwalwar sa take son yin jima'i, jikinsa bai cika yin biyayya ba.

A ƙarshe ya yarda da yanayin, ya nemi afuwa ga kwanansa don "aikin damuwa" - wanda ya bugu da haɗuwa da giyar da barasa - kuma ya yi alƙawarin ba zai bari ya sake faruwa ba. Kashegari ya tafi wurin sunadarai ya sayi fakiti na allunan 8 sildenafil Allunan, wanda aka fi sani da suna Viagra.

Alex, wanda shekarunsa suka kai shekaru 20, bai dace da matsayin mai amfani da Viagra ba: jama'a har yanzu suna ganin kwayar shudi a matsayin wacce ta saba da mazan da suka yi aure, mai yiwuwa tare da rashin lafiya da wahala tare da tsufa ko kuma rashin lafiyar da ke tattare da rashin lafiyar. Amma batun Alex, da kuma shawarar da ya yanke ta yin amfani da viagra don magance matsalar, ba ta sha bamban ba.

Watan watanni 12 ne tun lokacin da aka samu Viagra a Burtaniya ba tare da takardar sayan magani ba. Magunguna sun yanke shawarar ko za su siyar da mazajen magungunan, mai suna 'Viagra Haɗa' kuma masana'antar Pfizer ce ta yi su, dangane da lafiyarsu da kuma irin magungunan da za su sha. Manufa ta farko lokacin da aka sami damar amfani da magunguna a 2018, don magance yawan Kwayoyin karya na lalata kai tsaye ana siyar da shi ba bisa doka ba. Amma shawarar ta kuma sami sakamakon da ba a iya tsammani ba sakamakon gabatar da miyagun ƙwayoyi zuwa sabon sashin kasuwar.

Murray Blacket, masanin ilimin jima'i a arewacin London, ya ce yana ganin samari da yawa suna daukar Viagra a matsayin "inshorar inshora" ko kuma "tallafin buya" zuwa rayuwa a cikin dakin kwana. Yawancin lokaci wannan zai kasance kafin su fita zuwa daren fita.

"Muna magana ne game da LGBT yanayin wasan Chemsex amma a madaidaiciyar fage akwai kwatankwacin ɓacin ranakun sati inda zaku yi hulɗa da wani, ku ɗauki koko da Viagra, sauka ramin zomo, fito ranar Litinin, ”in ji Blacket.

Tun daga farkon watan Agusta 2017, watanni takwas kafin a sayar a kan babban titi, likitoci a Burtaniya suna bayar da rahoto haɓaka da samari ke yi ba tare da an sani ba suna siyar da miyagun ƙwayoyi ta hanyar intanet a cikin ƙoƙari don haɓaka aikin jima'i ko, kamar Alex, don hana yin amfani da wasu magungunan nishaɗin da ke haifar da wahalar kiyaye tashin hankali.

Mai yiwuwa mutane a cikin Burtaniya sun fi waɗanda suke a Turai, Amurka, Australia ko Kanada, a hada jima'i da kwayoyi, bisa ga Binciken Magunguna na Duniya na 2019, ba tare da la'akari da jinsi ko yanayin jima'i ba. Abubuwan da aka fi amfani dasu sune barasa, cannabis, MDMA da cocaine - duk waɗannan suna iya hana yin jima'i idan an sha su da yawa.

Viagra yana aiki ta hanyar tabbatar da isasshen jini ya gudana a cikin azzakari don kiyaye ta. Ba shi da wani tasiri kai tsaye kuma yana aiki ne kawai idan mutumin ya sami sha'awar yin jima'i. Don haka ba za ku yi yawon shakatawa na dare ba tare da tsawa na tsawon awanni, amma za ku iya dogara da shi idan kun sami sa'a a ƙarshen daren.

Blacket ta ce yawancin samarin da suke shan ta kwararru ne - malamai, lauyoyi, masu horar da kansu. Viagra ba ta da tsada kamar yadda ta kasance sau ɗaya, amma har yanzu tana kan $ 19.99 don fakitin kwamfutar hannu huɗu ko £ 34.99 na takwas. Ba mai rahusa bane ga abin da yake, yadda ya kamata, 'kawai in dai' ne.

"Samari ba su da tabbaci sosai game da ikon jima'i," in ji Blacket. "Wadannan mutane suna ɗaukar Viagra kamar ƙarfafawa ga amincewa. Ba batun samun karin sha'awar jima'i bane - kawai batun samun damar aiwatarwa ne a 'jima'i na al'ada'. "

Wannan raguwa cikin amincewa galibi yana da alaƙa tare da hauhawar yawan mutane kallon kallon batsa ta intanet. Binciken kwanan nan da aka gano tsakanin 14% da 35% na samari sun ce sun dandana tsarin erectile idan aka kwatanta da 2-3% kafin 2008. Maria Sharpe Fuskar Abinci, sadaka ta ilimi da ke mayar da hankali kan soyayya, jima'i da intanet ya gaya wa Guardian: "Tun da 2008, lokacin da yawo kyauta, batsa mai ma'ana ya zama yana da sauƙin samuwa, ya ci gaba da hauhawa."

Blacket din da yake canzawa yana da rawar da zai taka, ”in ji Blacket, tare da haɓakar ƙa'idodin Dating da kuma mai da hankali kan ma'amala ta jima'i mara ma'ana cewa mutane suna sha'awar jima'i. "Idan bai yi maka kyau ba to mutane na iya motsawa su hadu da wani," in ji shi. “Al'adar tsayawa dare shine ma'amala ta wannan hanyar. Kuna da damar guda ɗaya. ”

Ba wai kawai akwai ƙarin matsa lamba don kasancewa a shirye koyaushe don jima'i ba, amma yawancin ma'amala na jima'i ana haɗa su da kasancewar barasa da sauran kwayoyi waɗanda ke hana aikin yi. “Wadannan maza suna yawan yin jima'i bayan shaye-shaye, idan ba kwayoyi ba. Samun Viagra da alama yana da alaƙa da tunanin 'Zan iya samun ƙarin fewan ƙarin pints kuma zan iya yin hakan' '. "

Kuma wannan tunanin ya zama mafi mahimmancin gaske, yayin da Viagra ya ƙara samun tushe a al'adun al'ada, in ji Blacket. "Yanzu akwai tallace-tallace a cikin Karkashin kasa da kuma a cikin motocin bas don Viagra [an kawo su] a kan Vespa. Wadannan kamfanoni sun ga canji a kasuwa kuma suna cin gajiyar hakan. ”

Da alama samun kamfanin salo irin na Deliveroo ya kawo Viagra a ƙofarku ya taka rawa wajen sanya likitan ya fi son samari. Maimakon wani abu da kuke buƙatar sata daga ɗakin gidan wanka na mahaifinku, zaku iya yin oda ta hanyar da kuka sa pizza. Tasirin wannan sauyin al'adu ya haifar da Blacket ganin yawan mutane maza ba tare da damuwa game da aikin ba, waɗanda suke tunanin ɗaukar Viagra zai sa su "da wuya" da jima'i mafi jin daɗi.

Blacket tana da damuwa game da cewa wasu daga cikin waɗanda suka zaɓi yin amfani da Viagra cikin nishaɗi suna ɗaukar allurai sama da yadda yake bayar da shawarar a kullum. Mutane da yawa suna ɗaukar allunan 100mg, yayin da NHS ke ba da shawarar wani kashi na 50mg sau ɗaya a rana. "Mutane ba su san abin da allurai ke nufi ba - suna amfani da yanayin bitamin ne kawai na ɗaukar ƙari."

Shan sildenafil da yawa zai iya haifar da sakamako masu illa kamar su ciwon kai, amai, damuwa, hanci da kuma rufewar hangen nesa. "Na tambayi wasu daga cikinsu yadda suke ji washegari kuma sun ce ba kyau," in ji shi. Kadan daga cikinsu sun zo wurina sun yi tambaya 'Shin ya kamata in damu? Har yaushe zan iya yin wannan? ”

Hakan yana sa shi damuwa da cewa mutane suna amfani da kwayoyin don yaɗo manyan abubuwa, masu zurfin zurfafa zurfafawa waɗanda ke hana rayuwar jima'i. "Suna ba da tallafin bandaki akan matsalar tare da Viagra. Wannan dole ne ya zama na ɗan lokaci. "

Karin bayani daga Mary Sharpe a cikin Maris 11 Labarin a cikin Guardian ya bayyana a cikin wannan shafin akan shafin yanar gizon Katolika Saitunan Yanar Gizo. Wannan labarin ya faɗo hanyoyin da muke girmamawa ciki har da mai ba da shawara a kan Dokta Donald Hilton da yourbrainonporn.com.

https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/internet-porn-the-highly-addictive-narcotic-emasculating-young-men-through-erectile-dysfunction


Maris 29, 2019, (Saitunan Yanar Gizo) - An rasa 'yan matashi da damar su shiga cikin jima'i tare da mata kamar yadda ake kallon batsa masu kallon batsa na sake dawo da tunaninsu, ta rage ikon su na yin jima'i.

A wata ma'ana, maza a cikin matasan su ta hanyar 30s suna shafewa game da jima'i, da zumunci, da haifuwa, da nuna ƙauna, da aure, da farin ciki.

Kuma wannan maganin alurar riga kafi ana gudanar da kyauta ta hanyar intanet.

"Har zuwa 2002, tasirin maza a ƙarƙashin 40 tare da ED (cin hanci da rashawa) yana kusa da 2-3 bisa dari," Mary Sharpe na Fuskar Abinci ya gaya The Guardian. "Tun lokacin da 2008, lokacin da aka ba da kyautar kyauta, fassarar maɗaukaki ta zama ta samuwa sosai, ta tashi a hankali."

"(P) orn yana canza yadda yara sukan yi jima'i," ci gaba Sharpe, kuma yana faruwa, "a lokacin da suke da yawancin rashin lafiyar rashin lafiyar kwakwalwar jiki da kuma ciwo. Yawancin yaudara da cututtukan kiwon lafiya na tunanin mutum sun fara ne a matashi. "

Jaridar Guardian ta nuna cewa, "Har zuwa kashi na uku na samari na yanzu suna fama da rashin lafiya."

Wannan abu ya zama mai yawan gaske da cewa yana da suna: "Lurar da ake yiwa Erectile Dama" (PIED).

"Maimakon yin amfani da halayen danginta ga mutane na ainihi, a yau ana iya samun yarinya a gaban allo, kuma yana yin motsa jiki ta hanyar jima'i don kasancewarsa a cikin ɗakinsa, don ganin shi ne kawai maimakon sa hannu," in ji wani bidiyon koyarwa, Brain yaro ya hadu da Intanit ɗin Intanit mai sauri.

"Alien shine kalmar da zan yi amfani da ita don bayyana yadda ya ji lokacin da na yi ƙoƙarin yin jima'i da mata na gaske," in ji wani saurayi da aka nakalto a cikin bidiyo. "Yana jin wucin gadi da kuma kasashen waje."

"Yana da kamar na sami kwanciyar hankali don kasancewa a gaban allon (maganin al'ada) cewa tunanin ni ya yi kama da ainihin jima'i maimakon ainihin jima'i," in ji shi.

"Mace ba su juya ni ba, sai dai idan sun kasance masu girma biyu da kuma bayan saka idanu na," inji wani.

Sauran sun bayar da rahoto game da fatan da suka samu da kuma ci gaba da gina wani abu a lokacin da ake da ita shine "tunanin batsa."

Tun lokacin da sabon abu ya zama sabon - bayanan, samun damar intanet mai saurin sauri tare da sauƙi, damar shiga ta hanyar wayoyin hannu, iPads, da kwakwalwa na kwamfutar tafi-da-gidanka ne sababbin abubuwan da suka faru na baya-bayan nan - dole ne a gudanar da bincike mai zurfi.

A halin yanzu, shaidun bayanan da aka haifa a matsayin masana - ciki har da masu ilimin psychologists, likitoci, da kuma urologists - sun ruwaito cewa suna jin irin wadannan yunkuri daga samari waɗanda shekarun da suka gabata sun kasance a cikin haɓaka na jima'i.

Masanin ilimin lissafi Paul Church ya fada wa BBC NewsSite cewa duk da yake a halin yanzu babu wata hujja ta musamman ga ƙungiyoyi tsakanin amfani da batsa da cin hanci da rashawa, shari'ar "yana da hankali da yawa likitoci da masu kwantar da hankula, ciki har da kaina, da tabbaci cewa ya zama babbar matsala ga wannan ƙarni na gaba. "

"Yana da wahala a san yadda yawancin samari suna fama da lalatawar ED. Amma ya bayyana cewa wannan sabon abu ne, kuma ba abu ne mai ban sha'awa ba, " ya lura Dokta Ibrahim Morgentaler, darektan Cibiyar Lafiya ta Manya Boston da kuma farfesa a asibitin urology a Harvard Medical School.

"Na san wannan gaskiya ne kawai saboda abin da nake gani da wannan yana faruwa ga mutanen da nake aiki tare da su," in ji Maureen Newberg, wani ma'aikacin jin dadin asibiti mai lasisi (LCSW) dake aiki a Washington, DC.

"Ina cikin aikin sirri ne wanda 95 kashi dari na abokan cinikinmu na maza ne da maza. Kusan duk waɗannan abokan cinikin suna da matsalar batsa ko kuma jaraba na batsa, "auren lasisi da dangiyar lafiyar iyali David Pickup ya gaya wa Shafin yanar gizo.

"Abinda nake gani game da batutuwa da nasarar da suka samu wajen yin amfani da batsa ya haifar da gano cewa batsa mai karfi ne", in ji Pickup.

Rashin bidiyo na yau da kullum, kamar sauran tsofaffi, yana lalata rayuwar dukkanin samari na samari. Masanin kimiyya a cikin Turai, Dokta Gerard van den Aardweg ya ce:

Bautar bautar talauci matalauta ne, wacce ke tattare da hulɗar ɗan adam. Lolf kullun. Fiye da batsa mafi yawa, yawancin suna karfafa damuwa da rashin lafiyarsu tare da so su kasance "babban mutum," kuma karami suna iya samun lambobin sadarwa na ainihi.

Hanyoyin da ba a tsammani ba, wanda ba a tsammani ba ne daga samari na yau da kullum da samari suka yi amfani da su yana iya wucewa fiye da lalacewa da kuma lalacewar dangantakar aure.

Mark Regnerus, farfesa na ilimin zamantakewa a jami'ar Texas a Austin da kuma babban sakatare a Cibiyar Austin don nazarin iyali da al'adu, shawara dangantaka tsakanin yin amfani da batsa da tallafi don sake jima'i da jima'i a 2012.

Mai bincike ya lura cewa "goyon baya ga matasan matasa don sake sake yin aure bazai zama cikakkiyar samfurin ƙididdiga game da 'yanci,' yanci, 'yanci, da kuma tsayin daka na gaskiya ba. Yana iya zama, a kalla a cikin wani ɓangare, wani samfurin yin amfani da shi na yau da kullum game da jima'i da zane-zane, "in ji ta yanar gizo.

"Hotunan shafukan yanar gizo mafi shahararrun yanar gizo ba su nuna bambanci game da jima'i ba - ko kuma irin waɗannan - daga wani," in ji Regnerus. "Ana ba da magungunan kayan aiki a matsayin wata hanyar da za ta yi amfani da wuta ta hanyar yin jima'i."

"Wadannan ba kakakin Kakanninku ba ne," in ji shi.

Rashin ƙwaƙwalwa da kuma ikon batsa ta intanet

Yayin da aka yi yaki akan '' yancin magana '' yancin 'yan wasan kwaikwayo da masana'antunsu sun yi shekaru iri-iri,' yan sun lura cewa 'yan kallo maza da mata sun kasance sun zama lalacewa. To, halin da ake ciki ya zama mara yiwuwa a yi watsi da shi.

Dokta Donald Hilton, Farfesa Farfesa a Ma'aikatar Neurosurgery, Jami'ar Kimiyya na Jami'ar Texas a San Antonio da kuma mamba na Direktan Cibiyar Kula da Lafiya ta Jima'i, ta rubuta a wata kasida mai taken Hotuna: Hanyoyin Wuta ta Jima'i:

Yana da ko'ina. Pornhub, shafin yanar gizon da yafi ziyarta a kan yanar gizo, yana da 92 biliyan mutane ziyarci 2016, isa ga bidiyon 12.5 ga kowane mutum a duniya. Ya zama hanyar farko na ilimin jima'i ga matasa kuma har ma a yanzu, tare da matasa masu yawa da suka ga jima'i, ciki har da mutane fiye da mutane biyu.

Wannan rushewar jima'i a kan bil'adama yana lalata wadanda ke kallonta kuma yana da nishaɗi ga wadanda suke ci gaba da yin amfani da shi. Duk da haka, waɗannan batutuwa suna da tsayayya da karfi daga masana'antun batsa da kuma masu binciken da ke kula da harkokin ilimi. Sun ce kawai matsalar da batsa ita ce kunya da kyawawan dabi'un da wuraren addini suke sanyawa.

Dr. Jeffrey Satinover, a cikin bayani da aka gabatarwa kwamitin kwamitin Majalisar Dattijai na 2008, ya bayyana cewa: "Yakan kasance a bayyane yake cewa batsa ba kome ba ne kawai wani nau'i na 'furci'. Kodayake duk abin da ya fi dacewa da shi, rashinsa, ko mugunta duk da haka an yi ta muhawwara da yadda ya dace da 'bayyanar', kuma dokokinmu sun yi daidai. Muna jayayya game da 'halin kirki' na wallafe-wallafen batsa; yanayinta kamar 'high' ko 'low' art; ko yana da 'darajar fansa.' Magana game da 'ayyukan' batutuwan 'wallafe-wallafe' da kuma 'ayyukan' batsa '' '' 'suna da alaka da mafi girman matakan fannonin tsarin mulki na Amurka - kalmomin da ke nuna alamar nuna cewa fahimtar batsa a matsayin furci shine asali kuma ba a yarda da ita ba. "

"Da zuwan kwamfutar, tsarin bazawa don wannan cigaba mai ban sha'awa (shafukan yanar gizo) ya zama kusan kyauta," in ji Satinover.

"Yana kamar kamar mun tsara wani nau'i na 100 heroin sau da yawa fiye da baya, mai amfani a cikin sirrin gidan kansa kuma injected kai tsaye zuwa kwakwalwa ta hanyar idanu," in ji Satin. "Yanzu yana samuwa a cikin samar da kyauta ta hanyar hanyar watsa labaran kai tsaye, wanda aka girmama a matsayin fasaha kuma ta kare ta Tsarin Mulki."

Ana kawar da lalacewar

"Harkokin jima'i da aka samu a cikin layi shine wani abu ne da za a ci gaba da zama," inji Dokta Tim Lock, masanin kimiyya da kuma masanin farfesa a Cibiyar Nazarin Kimiyyar Kimiyya, Jami'ar Jinƙan Allah.

ZUWA zai kasance tare da mu "har sai ana iya tayar da mutane tare da halayyar kaifin kirki kuma iyaye za su iya yarda da buƙatar yin amfani da zafin yanar gizo (da kuma lissafin yanar gizo) don hana 'ya'yansu samun damar shiga yanar gizo marasa dacewa," in ji Lock a cikin sanarwa zuwa Shafin Farko. "Ba wani abu mai sauƙi ba ne, kuma ba shi da wataƙida ta tayar da yaro wanda yake daraja kullun kansa, tsabta, tsabta, da tufafi. Dole ne malamai na yara su yarda da waɗannan dabi'un. "

"Yana da wuya a sayar," in ji Lock. "Don me ba ku sani ba, Ubangijinmu Ya zo ne don Ya raya, kuma Ya ba shi alheri?"

Dr. Hilton ya tsara matakai guda hudu masu muhimmanci:

  • Na farko, dole ne mu kare tsara ta gaba daga jima'i mai haɗari da masana'antun batsa da masu tuntube suke bunkasa;
  • Abu na biyu, dole ne mu koma cikin al'umma inda tsofaffi suka ki amincewa da rashin jin daɗi na batsa;
  • Na uku, al'amuran mu sun fi ƙarfin wariyar launin fata da jima'i, duk da haka muna tunawa da duka idan mutane suna da jima'i kuma kyamarori suna motsawa. Dole ne mu rike masana'antun batsa a daidai wannan ma'auni;
  • Abu na hudu, dole ne mu koma al'adun girmamawa, tausayi, da tausayi, wanda shine ma'anar irin al'adun zamani.

Za a iya samun bayanai game da barin batsa da kuma kubuta daga sakamakon da zai iya lalacewa a shafin yanar gizon masu taimakawa, Brainka a kan Porn.

Aminiya na tushen Krista ga bautar yin amfani da porn yana bayar da ita Yi ƙoƙari.

11 Maris 2019. A cikin babban salon salon rayuwa ta hanyar Amy Fleming, An ambaci Mary Sharpe da yawa The Guardian a kan batsa da kuma amfani dysfunction kafa.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction

Shin, batsa sa matasa maza rashin ƙarfi?

Har zuwa kashi na uku na samari yanzu suna fama da lalacewa. Wasu suna juya zuwa matakan da suka dace kamar su penile implants - amma ana yin amfani da hotunan batsa shine kawai mafita?

Erectile dysfunction
Misali: Nishant Choksi

TA nan ne yakin da ya dace da tallan da ke cikin London Underground dauke da taken "ED IS DEAD" kusa da hoto na wani mutum mai kyau a cikin matakansa. "Kada ku damu," in ji shi a ƙaramin rubutu a ƙasa. "Ed ba wani mutum ba ne. Wannan abu ne mai ban sha'awa. Ya takaice don cin hanci da rashawa. "Hotunan suna ingantawa sabon alama na sildenafil (wanda aka fi sani da Viagra), wanda ya kamata muyi tunanin yana kashe matsalar. Amma, kamar yadda yake tsaye, ED yana da nisa daga matattu.

Cibiyar kasuwancin Viagra da ake amfani da su a cikin tsofaffin marasa lafiya, amma bisa ga binciken da aka yi a yau da kullum, tsakanin 14% da 35% na samari sun sami ED. "Wannan hauka ne amma gaskiya ne," in ji Mary Sharpe na Fuskar Abinci, sadaukarwa ta ilimi da ke mayar da hankali akan ƙauna, jima'i da intanet. "Har zuwa 2002, tasirin maza a ƙarƙashin 40 tare da ED yana kusa da 2-3%. Tun da 2008, lokacin da ake saukowa kyauta, fassarar maɗaukaki ya zama mai saurin samuwa, ya tashi a hankali. "Shaidar, na asibiti da kuma anecdotal, yana hawa cewa hotunan batsa yana da mahimmanci.

Haɗiyar ED da batsa suna amfani

Clare Faulkner, dan jarida mai hulɗar ɗan adam da kuma dangantaka da ke tsakiya a London, yana cikin wadanda ke haɗakar da ED da batsa. "Ina da tallan ED a farkon 20s," in ji ta. Wani ɓangare na matsala tare da batsa shine cewa "ƙwarewar da ba ta da kyau. Matsalolin yana zuwa a waje, wanda zai sa ya zama da wuya a cikin jikinka. "Har ila yau, ya ci gaba da rikitaccen labari, ta ce," maza suna da wuya kuma mata suna shirye don jima'i a duk lokacin ".

Masu kallon hotunan lalata sun kasance sun saba da kasancewa cikakke da kwarewa game da abubuwan da suka shafi jima'i - wanda kuma, in ji Faulkner, "ba a yin rikice a cikin ainihin duniya" ba. Kasancewa da ainihin mutum mai rikitarwa, tare da bukatu da rashin tsaro, zai iya zama mai zurfi-sa.

BABI

A cikin shafukan intanet da aka sadaukar da su ga batutuwa ta hanyar motsa jiki (PED), dubban samari sunyi kokarin su don dakatar da yin amfani da batsa, haɓaka daga batsa mai laushi zuwa hardcore da kuma matsalolin da suka fuskanta wajen yin rayuwa ta ainihi na jima'i da jima'i. Yana da wuya a tabbatar da cewa batsa ya sa ED, amma waɗannan shaidu sun sake gwada binciken daga littattafai na asibiti: cewa idan mutane za su iya yin wasan kwaikwayon su, za su fara farfadowa da ikon su na tasowa ta hanyar zumunci.

Wasu samari sun fara yankunan kansu, kamar su NoFap (yin amfani da "ba al'ada ba"), wanda Alexander Rhodes ya kafa a Amurka. (Sharpe ta lura cewa samari yanzu "sukan danganta al'aura da batsa - ba su gan su ba".) Rhodes, yanzu 31, ya fara amfani da batsa na intanit a kusa da 11 ko 12. "Na kasance a cikin ƙarni na farko na mutanen da suka taso ne a kan hotuna na yanar gizo mai sauri," in ji shi a cikin wani tattaunawa a kan layi.

A lokacin da ya fara yin jima'i a 19, ya cigaba da cewa: "Ba zan iya kula da tsararraki ba tare da yin tunanin batsa ba. Hanyoyin yanar-gizon da ke cikin sauri sune ilimin jima'i. "A bara, ya gaya wa masu sauraro a Cibiyar Nazarin Harkokin Jima'i na Amurka:" Yara na Amurka da kuma yawancin kasashe masu tasowa ana ta haɗuwa ta hanyar kwarewar yanar gizo inda tasirin hotuna ya zama dole ne. "

Masu amfani da hotuna sun fara samari

Shekarun da Rhodes ya fara kallon batsa ba sabon abu bane. A cikin 2016, Jami'ar Middlesex ta gano cewa, tare da 60% na yara sun fara kallon sa a cikin gidajen kansu. Kuma Nazarin Irish An wallafa shi a farkon wannan shekara a cikin jarida na nazarin jarida ta yanar gizo cewa, 52% na yara sun fara amfani da batsa don al'aura a lokacin 13 ko karkashin. Kafofin watsa labarun na iya zama wata hanya, in ji Sharpe. "Hotuna taurari suna da Instagram asusu don haka suna sa yara su dubi su a Instagram, kuma a cikin kayan su zasu ce: 'Ku dube bidiyo na.' Daya ko biyu akafi zuwa kuma kana kallon tauraruwar hardcore. Ƙananan yara na 12 ko 13 ba za su kasance suna kallon abu mai girma ba. "

Gidauniyar Fadawa ba kungiya ce mai kunna batsa ba, in ji Sharpe, "amma batsa mai haɗari yana canza yadda yara suke yin jima'i". Kuma yana faruwa a cikin shekaru masu yawa, "a lokacin da suke mafi yawancin rashin lafiyar rashin lafiyar kwakwalwar jiki da kuma shan jaraba. Yawancin yaudara da cututtukan kiwon lafiya na tunanin mutum sun fara ne a matashi. "Shi da Faulkner sun yi imanin cewa tasirin yin amfani da batsa zai iya bayyana wani ɓangare na dalilin da yasa Millennials suna da rashin jima'i fiye da tsarawa a gabansu, a cewar wani binciken da aka buga a mujallar News of Sexual Behavior.

Harkokin mai amfani na bidiyo

Gabe Deem, wanda ya kafa rukuni na batsa Sake yi Nation, yayi magana a bayyane game da abubuwan da ya samu. Lokacin da yake 23, ya ce: "Na yi ƙoƙari na yi jima'i da kyakkyawan yarinya, mace da nake sha'awar gaske, kuma babu abin da ya faru. Ba zan iya jin wani abu na jiki ba, kuma ba zan iya samun wani abu kaɗan ba. "

Kamar yadda yake tare da sauran tsofaffi, in ji Faulkner: "Mutane suna buƙatar samun allurai masu karfi don samun ɗaukaka. Yana da kullum game da turawa iyaka don samun irin wannan tashin hankali. Abin da ke nufi abin da suke kallon yana samun karin haske kuma yana iya tsoratarwa. Ina da abokan ciniki sun gaya mani cewa basu da dadi da abubuwan da suke kallo. "A lokacin da masu bincike sukayi nazari akan tunanin masu cin batsa, ya ce Sharpe:" Suna kallon kwakwalwar wannan kwakwalwar da ke cikin kowacce jaraba. "

Ayyukan da ake ciki

Wasu har yanzu suna watsi da haɓakawa a cikin ED tsakanin samari kamar yadda yi damuwa, amma Sharpe ya ce yayin da wannan zai iya zama gaskiya ga wasu, "Abin da muke ji daga likitoci, masu ilimin jima'i, likitoci da kuma mutanen da ke fuskantar halayen halayen halayen mata shine cewa fiye da 80% na al'amurran da suka shafi al'amura ne." an gudanar da bita tare da masu aikin kiwon lafiya a fadin Birtaniya kuma sun gano cewa likitoci da likitoci ba su ma la'akari da tambayar marasa lafiyar maza da suke da ED game da yin amfani da batsa ba. "Suna ba su Viagra kuma ba na aiki ga yawancin su," in ji Sharpe. "Ba a magance matsalar matsala ba."

Lokacin da kwayoyi ba su aiki ba, Sharpe ya ji labarin samari na samar da kwakwalwa (wadanda aka gina a cikin azzakari don taimakawa wajen ginawa). "Daya daga cikin mahalarta na likita a daya daga cikin tarurrukan mu a bara ya ce wani mai haƙuri yana da irin wadannan abubuwa biyu." Ba wanda ya yi tunanin ya tambaye shi game da amfani da batsa.

A wani ziyara na 'yan kwanan nan, Sharpe ta tuna, wani matashi ya tambaye ta sau da yawa a yau taba dasu don batsa yafi yawa. "Suna yin amfani da shi a duk lokacin," in ji Sharpe, "kuma babu wanda ya gaya musu cewa matsala ce."

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