Labaran No. 9 Spring 2020

Barka da zuwa bazara! Muna fatan kuna jin daɗin kyakkyawan yanayi da jurewa da kyau tare da baƙon yanayi wanda duk zamu sami kanmu a wannan Lokacin bazara. Zama lafiya.
 
A Gidauniyar Bada Tukuici mun yi amfani da damar gibi a cikin littafinmu don cim ma ayyuka da dama gami da wannan wasiƙar da aka jinkirta. Ahem! Anan ga kadan daga cikin ayyukan da suka shagaltar damu cikin yan watannin da suka gabata: gabatar da bita da tattaunawa a wurare da dama; karatun sabon bincike; samar da takardun bincike da kanmu; magana a cikin makarantu da kuma ga manema labarai da kuma tsara dabarunmu na shekara mai zuwa. Nishaɗi, raha da ƙari.
 
Baya ga karin haske na labarai, mun zaɓi 'yan bulogi daga watannin da suka gabata idan har kuka rasa su a gidan yanar gizon. Ga hanyar haɗi zuwa babban jerin  Blogs

Abu ne mai sauqi don ɓatar da lokacin kyauta cikin raɗaɗi da walwala game da mummunan yanayin wannan lokacin. Don haka don sake daidaita daidaito a nan ga 'yan aphorisms don sanya tunanin mu akan mai kyau:

"Ina son ku da numfashi, murmushi, hawaye na duk rayuwata!"  by Elizabeth Browning

"Loveauna ita ce kawai abin da muke da shi, hanya ɗaya kawai da za mu iya taimakon juna." Na Euripides

"Loveauna mara kyau ta ce: 'Ina ƙaunarku saboda ina bukatan ku.' Balagagge soyayya ta ce: 'Ina bukatan ku saboda ina son ku.' " by E. Daga

 All feedback ne maraba ga Mary Sharpe [email kariya].

Breneman labarai don Guguwar 2020

Sabon Littattafan da Iyaye suka yiwa Iyaye game da Tasirin Labarin Batsa akan Yara

Da fatan za a yi rajista don Vimeo zuwa kalli trailer don wannan sabon shirin da iyaye suka yi a New Zealand. Mahaifiyar 'yar Scotland ce. 

Talla din kyauta ne, amma kallon bidiyon da ke ƙasa yana biyan kuɗi kaɗan. Rob da Zareen sun yi wannan ne a kan kasafin kuɗi ta hanyar amfani da ƙwarewar su da ƙudurin su, don haka da fatan za a saye ta idan za ku iya. Godiya.

Hoto ga Yaranmu akan layi. Labaran batsa, redaura da kuma yadda zaka kiyaye su.
BBC Scotland: Nine - Rarrabuwar Jima'i

A cikin watan Disamba na shekarar da ta gabata, BBC Scotland The tara ta yi hira da wakilin TRF Mary Sharpe game da yawan tashin hankali da ke haifar da matsalar jima'i sakamakon mutuwar Millane a New Zealand. Duba hirar nan.

Mary Sharpe, Jenny Constable, Martin Geissler da Rebecca Curran
Mary Sharpe, Shugabar Gidauniyar 'Reward Foundation' da kuma 'yar jarida Jenny Constable, tare da rukunin rukunin gidajen wasanni na Nine Martin Geissler da kuma Rebecca Curran

Wannan yanayin bakin ciki ba na ware bane kuma yana da rikitarwa fiye da yadda aka fara bayyana. Dangane da binciken 2019 wanda Jaridar Sunday Times ta yi sau biyu yawan 'yan mata' yan kasa da shekaru 22 (Generation Z) suna daɗaurin jima'i da BDSM (ɗauri, mamaya, bakin ciki da masoya) kamar yadda su suka fi so yin batsa idan aka kwatanta da samari. Wannan yana haifar da babbar matsala ga kotuna a cikin shari'ar cin zarafin jima'i idan aka yi la’akari da ko an sami yardar gaske ga ɓarna, wani nau'in BDSM.

Ranar soyayya a Belfast

Mun yi farin ciki da kyakkyawar maraba da muka samu a ranar soyayya a Lisburn, kusa da Belfast. Mun zo ne don halartar Makon Lafiya Jima'i na Arewacin Ireland. An samu kyakkyawar tururuwar kwararru a sassan kiwon lafiya da na ayyukan zamantakewa. Mun gabatar da batun "Labarin Batsa da lalatawar Jima'i." Har yanzu, ba mu yi mamakin gano cewa GPs da yawa ba, maza da mata, ba su da masaniya game da hanyar haɗin kai tsakanin amfani da batsa na intanet da lalata jima'i a cikin samari. Za su so su sake kiranmu don ƙarin.

TRF a Lagan Valley Civic Center, Lisburn a Arewacin Ireland.
TRF a Lagan Valley Civic Center, Lisburn a Arewacin Ireland.
Saurari ƙwararrun masanan

Zai dace da lokacinka don ɗaukar lokacin saurare ka koya daga wadannan furofesoshi biyu na ilimin halin dan Adam. Kent Berridge na Jami’ar Michigan ta Amurka da Frederick Toates na Jami’ar Budaddiyar Jami’ar da ke Burtaniya ne ke kan gaba wajen ƙwararrun ƙwararru a kan jaraba. Menene ke motsa kuzari, jin daɗi da zafi? Yana da matukar muhimmanci mu fahimci yadda yaranmu da matasanmu ke zama masu sha'awar kallon batsa, wasa, caca da sauransu. Wannan mataki ne na farko don mu taimaka musu su yi rayuwa cikin koshin lafiya a nan gaba. 

Farfesa Kent Berridge da Farfesa Frederick Toates
Farfesa Kent Berridge da Frederick Toates
Koyarwa a cikin Scotland

Mun yi sa'a don gudanar da cikakken darasi na rana ta ƙarshe ranar 17th Maris a Kilmarnock kafin makullin ya kulle. Batutuwan shine "Labaran Batsa da Intanet da kuma Rikicewar Yankewa".
 
Gaskiya mai ban sha'awa da ta fito daga wani taron horarwa da aka yi da wannan Majalisar ita ce cewa masu laifin fyaɗe da waɗanda ake tuhuma da cin zarafin gida ana kula da su daban da hukumomin shari'a. Misali, akwai kayan aikin tantance masu hadari daban-daban ga kowane rukuni kuma a kowane yanayi bama za'a dauki batun matsalar jarabar batsa ba. Ta hanyar yin hanyar haɗi zuwa ga yadda ake amfani da batsa ta hanyar intanet zai iya haifar da yanke shawara mara kyau, zalunci da kuma tursasawa a cikin wasu masu amfani, ma'aikatan zamantakewa na masu laifi suna iya samun mafi kyawun hanyoyin don taimakawa rage tasirin tashin hankalin cikin gida gaba. Yin amfani da batsa mai zurfi na iya haifar da tashin hankali na gida da kuma lalata jima'i. Muna fatan sake aiki tare da wannan Majalisar daga baya a wannan shekara.

Alamar Majalisar Dinkin Duniya

Abin farin ciki, gajeren bidiyo don yara na kowane zamani!

Gidauniyar wardaukar partaya daga cikin ƙungiyoyi na ƙungiyoyi. Muna yaƙin neman zaɓin gwamnatin Burtaniya don aiwatar da dokar tabbatar da Age Age don wuraren batsa. Da fatan za a aika da wannan bidiyon ga yawancin yara, iyaye, kungiyoyin matasa, 'yan majalisar dokoki, masu amfani da kafofin watsa labarun kamar yadda za ku iya tallafawa saƙonNemo shi anan:  https://ageverification.org.uk/

Tabbatar da Shekarar Porn

Bugawar Blogs

“Kamawa”?

"Kamawa" shine yaudarar yara kan aikata wani abu da bai dace ba, alal misali, yayin da suke raye-raye. Sannan idan ba tare da sanin yaron ba, ana “kama hotunan” ko rikodin halayen da basu dace ba. Ana amfani dasu daga baya don yin ɓarna ko kuma zina wanda aka azabtar. Yara masu yin fyade da sauran masu son lalata sunada hankali amma kuma mutane basa da sha'awar yin jima'i da yara. Suna kawai neman hanyoyi masu sauƙi don samun kuɗi ko kaya. Wannan na iya zama da matukar damuwa ga yara waɗanda ba su san yadda za su shawo kan irin wannan barazanar ba.

Ppingan wasa yana ɗaukar hotunan raye-raye na yara don dalilai na amfani
Babban Pan Wasan batsa yana neman Yaƙi da Cutar

"A lokacin rikici, masana'antun batsa yana ƙara ƙarin baƙin ciki na ɗan adam. Pornhub ya ba da abun ciki kyauta kyauta a duk faɗin duniya. ” Dubawa da tallace-tallace sun yi birgima a sakamakon…
“A cikin fim din 1980 Jirgin sama!, mai kula da zirga-zirgar zirga-zirgar jiragen sama Steve McCroskey yana ƙoƙari ya jagoranci jirgin sama wanda matukan jirginsu duk suka lalace ta hanyar guba abinci zuwa aminci. "Ya yi kama da na ɗauki makon da ba daidai ba don daina shan sigari," in ji shi, yana mai zagi. Daga baya, ya kara da cewa shima kuskure ne sati don "daina amphetamines" sannan kuma a sake "makon da bai dace ba a daina gurnani."

Hoto daga Sebastian Thöne daga Pixabay
MAGANGANUN GASKIYA

Iyaye koyaushe suna tambayarmu menene gwamnatoci yakamata suyi don rage haɗarin cutar da yaran akan layi. Wannan blog din yana gabatar da wasu daga cikin muhimman 'yan wasa, gami da kawancen duniya na WePROTECT.

Click nan don ƙarin koyo game da Allianceungiyar Globalasashen Duniya da Eungiyar "idanu Guda Biyar".

MAGANGANUN GASKIYA
Yin Zina da Dokar

Iyaye na iya gigice su sani cewa yayin da ake hada-hada ta hanyar hada mutane ya zama ruwan dare, tilasta yin sexing shima ya zama ruwan dare gama gari. Bincike ya nuna cewa kallon batsa yana tasiri yayin da yake ƙarfafa tashin hankali, magudi da yaudara. Wannan shafin ya hada da shafukan namu game da sexting da kuma daukar doka. Hakanan yana da labarin mai ban sha'awa daga jaridar The Guardian.  

Jagorar Iyaye Kyauta zuwa Hotunan Intanet

An haɗu a gida yayin annobar cutar, yara da yawa tare da sauƙin shiga yanar gizo za su sami damar kayan manya. Wannan na iya zama kamar ba'a mai cutarwa ba, amma sakamakon zai nuna a lokacin da ya dace. Idan ku mahaifi ne koya koya yadda zaku iya game da yadda zakuyi magana da yaranku game da batsa. Ba komai bane kamar batsa na da. Duba namu Shirin Iyaye na Iyaye na Iyaye don Intanit don bidiyo iri iri, labarai, littattafai da sauran albarkatu. Zai iya taimaka muku samun wannan tattaunawar mai wahala.

Jagora na Iyaye kyauta ga hotunan batsa na Intanet

Gidauniyar Talla

TRF Twitter @brain_love_Sex

Da fatan za a bi Gidauniyar Talla a kan shafin yanar gizon Twitter @brain_love_sex. A can za ku sami sabbin abubuwa na yau da kullun game da sabon bincike da ci gaba a wannan filin kamar yadda suke bayyana.