ma'aurata masu juna biyu

Ma'aurata biyu

Duk da yake aure kanta na iya kasancewa a cikin al'ada da aka tsara, ɗammani sha'awar zama cikin ma'aurata shine ilmin halitta. Yin jima'i da haɗin kai dukiya ne. Mutane suna daga cikin rukunin kasa da 5% na mambobin da aka kira biyu abokan hulɗa. Wannan yana nufin muna da tsarin kwakwalwa wanda ya bar mu da rai don rayuwa, kasancewa na zamantakewar al'umma ɗaya, kamar swans. Sun ba mu damar yin jima'i na tsawon lokaci, tsawon lokaci don masu kulawa biyu su kawo 'ya'yansu. Duk da haka 'kasancewar' yan jari-hujja 'ba daidai ba ne da kasancewar' jima'i guda daya '. Jarabawar 'wasa daga gida' akwai kusan dukkanin dabbobi masu rai ciki har da mutane. Kyakkyawan nazari na wallafe-wallafen yana samuwa nan.

The tsarin sakamako ita ce inda wadannan ƙungiyoyi biyu suka haɗa. Hakanan shi ne tsari wanda yake motsa mu ga sauran dabi'a na abinci da ruwa. Abin takaici, shi ma inda aka sarrafa ko kayan aikin wucin gadi kamar barasa, nicotine, da magunguna suna da mahimmanci. Suna cinye tsarin jin dadi / sakamako. A gaskiya ma, ladabi na wucin gadi kamar cocaine da barasa na iya haifar da jin daɗin jin dadi fiye da jima'i. Masu bincike sun gano cewa abokan hulda guda biyu, idan aka kwatanta da dabbobin da ba su da haɓaka da dabi'a, sun fi sauƙi ga jaraba. Za mu gani a baya a ƙarƙashin Aiki na Coolidge a ƙasa don me yasa wannan shine ainihin matsala don ci gaba da ƙauna.

Dogaro da amincewa suna da muhimmanci. Mu sau da yawa muna so mu nuna ƙauna ta wurin jikinmu kamar ta damuwa, sumbacewa, caressing, dawa da kuma yin jima'i. Ƙaunar ƙaunar "ta shawo kan mugun dabba" kuma yana warke sosai. Ma'aurata da dangantaka mai kama da juna ta jiki cikin jiki warkar sauri bayan rauni. Ko muna tunanin ƙaunar da ake nufi da 'ƙauna,' ko kuma son zuciya da sha'awar sha'awa, waɗannan ji da motsin zuciyarmu suna da farko a kwakwalwa. Saboda haka ta hanyar koyon yadda za mu iya yadda kwakwalwa zata aiki zai taimaka mana mu sami irin wadannan motsin zuciyarmu a cikin hanyoyi na al'ada.

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