Rage Jirgin Jima'i

Rage Jirgin Jima'i

Rage sha'awar jima'i matsala ce ta gaske a cikin dangantakar dogon lokaci. Hakan na faruwa ne sakamakon samarda karancin kwayoyin dopamine yayin saduwa da mace daya. A lokaci guda kwakwalwa na rage adadin masu karbar kwayar cutar kan lokaci zuwa lokaci don aiwatar da sakamakon lada da mutumin ya haifar. Dopamine shine neurochemical wanda ke motsa sha'awa da motsawa. Yana bunƙasa a kan sabon abu. Bayan 'ranakun amarcin amarci' sun lalace, zamu iya jin ƙarancin ko rashin sha'awar jima'i ko sha'awar abokin mu. Mayila mu iya mai da hankali kan gina sana'a ko haɓaka yara a maimakon haka. Hakan ba yana nufin ba ma jin kauna ko shakuwa da abokin aurenmu, kawai cewa sha'awar jima'i ba ta kai ta waɗancan lokutan farko ba, na kwanakin sha'awar.

Irin wannan rashin jin daɗi na iya jawo wasu mutane don neman sabon damar da za a iya ba tare da abokan tarayya, kama-da-wane ko ainihi. A yau yaudarar batsa na intanit yana ɓarna a yawancin dangantaka. Aiki na Coolidge shine dalilin da yasa batsa, amma hotuna na Intanit musamman, yana da kyau. Ruwa mai mahimmanci na littafi da masu sha'awar sha'awa suna bayyana mana, a swipe, danna ko matsa. Ba tare da Coolidge Effect, babu wani intanet. Ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwararrun ƙwaƙwalwa ba za ta iya bayyana bambanci tsakanin ma'aurata na ainihi da kuma girman 2 ba, nau'in gaskiyar abin da ke cikin allon.

Don taimakawa sake farfado da haskaka, musayar musayar halayen yana da shawarar sosai. Wadannan sifofin ganewa ne ga kwakwalwar ƙwayar cuta wadda take taimakawa wajen jin daɗin fushi ko fushi. Duba wannan da amfani Labari don ƙarin bayani. Ɗaya daga cikin littattafai mafi kyau a kasuwar da ba wai kawai ya fitar da ƙarancin jiki da fahimtar juna wanda ke dauke da wannan abu ba amma har yana da jagoran mataki na warkaswa, shi ne Cutin Yankin Wasidun na Cupid - Daga Haɗuwa don Haɗuwa a Harkokin Jima'i, ta hanyar Marnia Robinson. Wanne za a iya samo nan. Duba ma wannan podcast don duba fassarar wannan batun tare da marubucin.

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