Love, Jima'i da Intanit

Love, Jima'i da Intanit"Mene ne soyayya?" yana daya daga cikin kalmomin da aka fi nema a intanet. Ƙarshen Nazarin Grant, wani bincike na tsawon shekaru 75 a Jami'ar Harvard, shine "farin ciki shine soyayya". Ya nuna cewa dangantaka mai dumi shine mafi kyawun tushen lafiya, dukiya da tsawon rai.

Sabanin haka, jaraba, damuwa da neurosis sune manyan matsalolin wannan yanayin da ake so. Fahimtar haɗarin da ke tattare da amfani da batsa na intanet yana da mahimmanci idan muna so mu guje wa zamewa cikin jaraba kuma mu sami alaƙar soyayya mai gamsarwa maimakon. Samun kama da soyayya, jima'i da intanet yana da mahimmanci.

A cikin wannan ɓangaren Ƙungiyar Taimako ta Bincike kan hanyoyin da mutane ke hulɗa a duk rayuwarsu. Me ya sa dangantaka ke aiki? Ta yaya za ku fada cikin soyayya kuma ku kasance cikin soyayya? Menene matsaloli wanda zasu iya janye ku?

Muna mai da hankali kan ilimin kimiyyar dangantaka mai nasara. A wasu lokuta kana buƙatar duba tushen ilimin halitta da kimiyyar ƙwaƙwalwa don duka su sami ma'ana. Farashin Coolidge Effect yana da ƙarfi musamman.

Mun kuma samar da kewayon albarkatun don tallafawa fahimtar waɗannan batutuwa.

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