A matsayin wani ɓangare na tafiye-tafiye na yau da kullum zuwa Australia, Darryl da Maryamu sun ziyarci ƙungiyoyi suna yin irin wannan aikin zuwa Foundation Foundation. A wannan tafiya mun hadu da irin wannan kungiyoyi uku.

Ƙungiyar farko da muka sadu da ita ita ce Cibiyar Gida ta Gold Coast ta haramta jima'i mai tsanani Inc., wanda ke kudu maso gabashin Queensland. Wannan nasiha ce da rigakafin lalata da sabis na rigakafin da aka kafa shekaru 26 da suka gabata ta Di Macleod, wanda mahaifinsa kamar yadda yake faruwa, ya fito daga Isle of Skye. A cikin 2013-14 Cibiyar ta samar da kusan bayanai da shawarwari 6,000 ga mata a yankin. Suna kuma bayar da rukunin yanar gizon da ake kira Me kuke tsammani bayar da taimako ga duk wanda ke da wahala a sakamakon jima'i, kafofin watsa labarun ko rikici.

Di Macleod ya ce Cibiyar ta lura da sauyi a shekarun baya-bayan nan game da irin cin zarafin da matan suke yi. Ma'aikatan Cibiyar ba za su iya fahimtar hakan da farko ba har sai da suka fahimci cewa hotunan batsa suna ɗaukar nauyin canje-canje. Andarin mata suna ba da rahoton sa hannu na ayyukan batsa da aka aiwatar ba tare da izini ba. Raunin jima'i da na jiki ya haɗa da shakewa, maƙogwaro da lalacewar al'aura. A kai a kai matan da ake magana da su zuwa Hadari da Gaggawa na buƙatar yin tiyata don raunin da suka samu.

Ayyukan jima'i suna daidaita da abin da aka gani a batsa. Babban abu yanzu shine ana yiwa mata fyade ta hanyar fyade sabanin kawai na lalata da mata. Ya hada da fitar maniyyi a fuska. Yanayi na yau da kullun yana farawa tare da mace fara yin jima'i da namiji, kawai don samun wasu maza da yawa suna shigowa cikin ɗakin don shiga ciki kuma ɗayan tabbas zai ɗauke shi fim. Hakanan akwai ƙarin amfani da kwayoyi da abubuwan sha a cikin hulɗa da jima'i.

Macleod ta ce yana da wahala mace ta ga abokiyar zamanta a matsayin mai fyade. Cibiyar ta tattauna da wata mata sama da shekaru 60 da mijinta wanda ya bata mata magani don ya samu damar yin jima'i ta dubura, wanda ba ta yarda da shi ba yayin da take sane. An gano wannan halayyar ne kawai lokacin da ta farka don kama shi ta hanyar lalata ta sakamakon rashin ba ta isassun ƙwayoyi don fitar da ita. Tsawon watanni ta kasance tana gabatar da likita tare da matsalar hanji. Wannan misali yana nuna gaskiyar cewa ƙwararrun likitocin kiwon lafiya ba sa yin tambayoyin da suka dace.

An zartar da laifin aikata baƙincikin baƙar fata a cikin Queensland a watan Agusta na 2016. Tuni an riga an gurfanar da maza 300 kuma an sami kusan 30 da laifi. Ofaya daga cikin ƙalubalen shine 'yan sanda ba su da horo sosai a wannan yankin. An kwafe dokar daga samfurin da aka kafa shekaru 20 da suka gabata ta Cibiyar Nazarin Harkokin Tsarin Lafiya a San Diego, Amurka, don mayar da martani ga tashin hankalin gida. Wannan manufar, tare da kotu na kwarewa, ta ga raguwar ragowar tashin hankalin gida a San Diego.

Menene Scotland za ta koya daga wasu kotu game da waɗannan laifuffukan da suke kai ga matakan da ke cikin Scotland?