Shin, batsa sa matasa maza rashin ƙarfi?

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11 Maris 2019. A cikin babban salon rayuwa Labari by Amy Fleming, An ambaci Mary Sharpe da yawa The Guardian a kan batsa da kuma amfani dysfunction kafa.

"Har zuwa kashi na uku na samari na yanzu suna fama da lahani. Wasu suna juya zuwa matakan da suka dace kamar su penile implants - amma ana yin amfani da hotunan batsa shine kawai mafita?

Akwai yakin neman yakin neman kayan da aka yi amfani da su a cikin harsuna na London da ke dauke da taken "ED IS DEAD" kusa da hoto na wani mutum mai kyau a cikin matakansa. "Kada ku damu," in ji shi a ƙaramin rubutu a ƙasa. "Ed ba wani mutum ba ne. Wannan abu ne mai ban sha'awa. Ya takaice don cin hanci da rashawa. "Hotunan suna ingantawa sabon alama na sildenafil (wanda aka fi sani da Viagra), wanda ya kamata muyi tunanin yana kashe matsalar. Amma, kamar yadda yake tsaye, ED yana da nisa daga matattu.

Cibiyar kasuwancin Viagra da ake amfani da su a cikin tsofaffin marasa lafiya, amma bisa ga binciken da aka yi a yau da kullum, tsakanin 14% da 35% na samari sun sami ED. "Wannan hauka ne amma gaskiya ne," in ji Mary Sharpe na Fuskar Abinci, sadaukarwa ta ilimi da ke mayar da hankali akan ƙauna, jima'i da intanet. "Har zuwa 2002, tasirin maza a ƙarƙashin 40 tare da ED yana kusa da 2-3%. Tun da 2008, lokacin da ake saukowa kyauta, fassarar maɗaukaki ya zama mai saurin samuwa, ya tashi a hankali. "Shaidar, na asibiti da kuma anecdotal, yana hawa cewa hotunan batsa yana da mahimmanci.

Haɗiyar ED da batsa suna amfani

Clare Faulkner, dan jarida mai hulɗar ɗan adam da kuma dangantaka da ke tsakiya a London, yana cikin wadanda ke haɗakar da ED da batsa. "Ina da tallan ED a farkon 20s," in ji ta. Wani ɓangare na matsala tare da batsa shine cewa "ƙwarewar da ba ta da kyau. Matsalolin yana zuwa a waje, wanda zai sa ya zama da wuya a cikin jikinka. "Har ila yau, ya ci gaba da rikitaccen labari, ta ce," maza suna da wuya kuma mata suna shirye don jima'i a duk lokacin ".

Masu kallon hotunan lalata sun kasance sun saba da kasancewa cikakke da kwarewa game da abubuwan da suka shafi jima'i - wanda kuma, in ji Faulkner, "ba a yin rikice a cikin ainihin duniya" ba. Kasancewa da ainihin mutum mai rikitarwa, tare da bukatu da rashin tsaro, zai iya zama mai zurfi-sa.

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A cikin shafukan intanet da aka sadaukar da su ga batutuwa ta hanyar motsa jiki (PED), dubban samari sunyi kokarin su don dakatar da yin amfani da batsa, haɓaka daga batsa mai laushi zuwa hardcore da kuma matsalolin da suka fuskanta wajen yin rayuwa ta ainihi na jima'i da jima'i. Yana da wuya a tabbatar da cewa batsa ya sa ED, amma waɗannan shaidu sun sake gwada binciken daga littattafai na asibiti: cewa idan mutane za su iya yin wasan kwaikwayon su, za su fara farfadowa da ikon su na tasowa ta hanyar zumunci.

Wasu samari sun fara yankunan kansu, kamar su NoFap (yin amfani da "ba al'ada ba"), wanda Alexander Rhodes ya kafa a Amurka. (Sharpe ta lura cewa samari yanzu "sukan danganta al'aura da batsa - ba su gan su ba".) Rhodes, yanzu 31, ya fara amfani da batsa na intanit a kusa da 11 ko 12. "Na kasance a cikin ƙarni na farko na mutanen da suka taso ne a kan hotuna na yanar gizo mai sauri," in ji shi a cikin wani tattaunawa a kan layi.

A lokacin da ya fara yin jima'i a 19, ya cigaba da cewa: "Ba zan iya kula da tsararraki ba tare da yin tunanin batsa ba. Hanyoyin yanar-gizon da ke cikin sauri sune ilimin jima'i. "A bara, ya gaya wa masu sauraro a Cibiyar Nazarin Harkokin Jima'i na Amurka:" Yara na Amurka da kuma yawancin kasashe masu tasowa ana ta haɗuwa ta hanyar kwarewar yanar gizo inda tasirin hotuna ya zama dole ne. "

Masu amfani da hotuna sun fara samari

Shekarun da Rhodes ya fara kallon batsa ba sabon abu bane. A cikin 2016, Jami'ar Middlesex ta gano cewa, tare da 60% na yara sun fara kallon sa a cikin gidajen kansu. Kuma Nazarin Irish An wallafa shi a farkon wannan shekara a cikin jarida na nazarin jarida ta yanar gizo cewa, 52% na yara sun fara amfani da batsa don al'aura a lokacin 13 ko karkashin. Kafofin watsa labarun na iya zama wata hanya, in ji Sharpe. "Hotuna taurari suna da Instagram asusu don haka suna sa yara su dubi su a Instagram, kuma a cikin kayan su zasu ce: 'Ku dube bidiyo na.' Daya ko biyu akafi zuwa kuma kana kallon tauraruwar hardcore. Ƙananan yara na 12 ko 13 ba za su kasance suna kallon abu mai girma ba. "

Gidauniyar Fadawa ba kungiya ce mai kunna batsa ba, in ji Sharpe, "amma batsa mai haɗari yana canza yadda yara suke yin jima'i". Kuma yana faruwa a cikin shekaru masu yawa, "a lokacin da suke mafi yawancin rashin lafiyar rashin lafiyar kwakwalwar jiki da kuma shan jaraba. Yawancin yaudara da cututtukan kiwon lafiya na tunanin mutum sun fara ne a matashi. "Shi da Faulkner sun yi imanin cewa tasirin yin amfani da batsa zai iya bayyana wani ɓangare na dalilin da yasa Millennials suna da rashin jima'i fiye da tsarawa a gabansu, a cewar wani binciken da aka buga a mujallar News of Sexual Behavior.

Harkokin mai amfani na bidiyo

Gabe Deem, wanda ya kafa rukuni na batsa Sake yi Nation, yayi magana a bayyane game da abubuwan da ya samu. Lokacin da yake 23, ya ce: "Na yi ƙoƙari na yi jima'i da kyakkyawan yarinya, mace da nake sha'awar gaske, kuma babu abin da ya faru. Ba zan iya jin wani abu na jiki ba, kuma ba zan iya samun wani abu kaɗan ba. "

Kamar yadda yake tare da sauran tsofaffi, in ji Faulkner: "Mutane suna buƙatar samun allurai masu karfi don samun ɗaukaka. Yana da kullum game da turawa iyaka don samun irin wannan tashin hankali. Abin da ke nufi abin da suke kallon yana samun karin haske kuma yana iya tsoratarwa. Ina da abokan ciniki sun gaya mani cewa basu da dadi da abubuwan da suke kallo. "A lokacin da masu bincike sukayi nazari akan tunanin masu cin batsa, ya ce Sharpe:" Suna kallon kwakwalwar wannan kwakwalwar da ke cikin kowacce jaraba. "

Ayyukan da ake ciki

Wasu har yanzu suna watsi da haɓakawa a cikin ED tsakanin samari kamar yadda yi damuwa, amma Sharpe ya ce yayin da wannan zai iya zama gaskiya ga wasu, "Abin da muke ji daga likitoci, masu ilimin jima'i, likitoci da kuma mutanen da ke fuskantar halayen halayen halayen mata shine cewa fiye da 80% na al'amurran da suka shafi al'amura ne." an gudanar da bita tare da masu aikin kiwon lafiya a fadin Birtaniya kuma sun gano cewa likitoci da likitoci ba su ma la'akari da tambayar marasa lafiyar maza da suke da ED game da yin amfani da batsa ba. "Suna ba su Viagra kuma ba na aiki ga yawancin su," in ji Sharpe. "Ba a magance matsalar matsala ba."

Lokacin da kwayoyi ba su aiki ba, Sharpe ya ji labarin samari na samar da kwakwalwa (wadanda aka gina a cikin azzakari don taimakawa wajen ginawa). "Daya daga cikin mahalarta na likita a daya daga cikin tarurrukan mu a bara ya ce wani mai haƙuri yana da irin wadannan abubuwa biyu." Ba wanda ya yi tunanin ya tambaye shi game da amfani da batsa.

A wani ziyara na 'yan kwanakin nan, Sharpe ta tuna, wani saurayi ya tambayi mata sau nawa a rana yana dashi don batsa da yawa. "Suna amfani da shi a duk lokacin," in ji Sharpe, "kuma babu wanda ya gaya musu cewa matsala ce." "

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