Shekaru na yarda

Shekaru na yardar mace ta yarda da tambayoyiDaya daga cikin manyan kalubale ga kowa a yau shine fahimtar ra'ayin yarda a cikin yanayin jima'i. Iyaye, makarantu, matasa da hukumomin shari'a a yau suna buƙatar taimaka wa matasa masu balaguro masu tafiya cikin nutsuwa tsakanin shekarun 16 da shekara 18. A wannan yankin ya halatta a yi jima'i amma ba raba hotuna tsirara ba. Fasahar Intanet na sanya ƙirƙira da watsa hotunan batsa masu ɗauke da sha'awa ga duk wanda ke da wayo, ciki har da kowane yaro. Harkokin jima'i yana sama 53% tun 2006-7 bisa ga alkaluman 2015-16 da Gwamnatin Scotland ta fitar. Wannan hawan mai girma shima yayi daidai da fitowar babbar hanyar shiga yanar gizo.

Wannan sashe yana magana musamman tare da yarda da sexting. Duba wasu shafuka don ƙarin cikakkun bayanai game da yarda da jima'i a aikace.

Dokar kan laifukan jima'i a Ingila da Wales kuma a Scotland suna ɗaukar matashi a matsayin "yaro," kuma yana buƙatar kariya, har ya kai shekaru 18.

Duk da haka shekarun izinin yin jima'i yana da shekaru 16. Yawancin matasan ba su gane cewa duk da yawan shekarun da aka ba da izinin jima'i, ba a yarda da su a cikin doka su dauki kai tsaye ba kuma aika su har sai sun kasance shekaru 18. Daukar hotuna na "yara" ba tare da izini ba doka ce. Yarin da ke karkashin 13 ba, a kowane hali, yana da ikon doka don yarda da kowane nau'i na jima'i.

Dokar a cikin wannan yanki an yi nufin shi ne kawai don amfani da maza da mata da kuma ƙananan mata masu sha'awar tsaran yara da suke da shirin yin jima'i ko waɗanda suke neman shiga cikin yara a karuwanci ko batsa. A dokar a Ingila da Wales sun ce "Yaran da ke yin karuwanci da farko ana cin zarafinsu ne kuma mutanen da ke amfani da su ta hanyar amfani da su, su ne masu cin zarafin yara."

Yanzu ma'anar 'yaro' ma'anar cewa matasa suna binciken sha'awar jima'i, tare da taimakon sabon fasaha, ana iya cajin su da mummunar tashin hankali.

Kodayake masu gabatar da kara suna da hankali su dubi duk abubuwan da suka faru kuma kawai suyi la'akari da idanunsu idan suna da sha'awar yin hakan.
Sunyi la'akari da irin wadannan abubuwa kamar bambancin shekarun tsakanin jam'iyyun, daidaituwa a tsakanin jam'iyyun game da jima'i, ta jiki, motsin rai da kuma ilmantarwa da kuma yanayin dangantakar su.

A cikin 2014 a Ingila, an binciki wata yarinya 'yar makaranta bayan ta aika da wani hoton kanta ga saurayinta. Daga baya ya samu gargadi bayan ya tura hoton ga abokansa bayan shi da yarinyar sun daina zama ma'aurata. The Abokan Lafiya da Harkokin Jima'i,  yana mu'amala da 'batsa na ramuwar gayya' watau watsa hotunan jima'i ba tare da izini ba. Bita  fansa batsa don ƙarin koyo.

Batu a nan shi ne rashi ko warwarewar yarda. Wata 'rashin daidaituwa' ta kusa da irin wannan aikin ya nuna cewa 'yan majalisa da' yan sanda a Burtaniya sun karbe su.

Wannan babban jagora ne ga doka kuma ba ya zama shawara na doka ba.