Ma'aurata biyu
Duk da yake aure kanta na iya kasancewa a cikin al'ada da aka tsara, ɗammani sha'awar zama cikin ma'aurata shine ilmin halitta. Yin jima'i da haɗin kai dukiya ne. Mutane suna daga cikin rukunin kasa da 5% na mambobin da aka kira biyu abokan hulɗa.
Wannan yana nufin muna da tsarin kwakwalwa wanda zai bar mu mu yi aure har abada, mu zama masu auren mace ɗaya, kamar swans. Suna ƙyale mu mu ɗaure na dogon lokaci, dadewa don masu kulawa biyu su yi renon yaran su.
Duk da haka kasancewa 'masu auren mace ɗaya' ba ɗaya bane da zama 'masu auren jinsi ɗaya'. Jarabawar 'wasa daga gida' tana nan a kusan dukkan dabbobi masu shayarwa ciki har da mutane. Kyakkyawan bita na wallafe-wallafen yana samuwa nan.
The tsarin sakamako shine inda waɗannan sifofin haɗin gwiwa biyu suke kwance. Tsarin iri ɗaya ne ke fitar da mu zuwa sauran ladan abinci da ruwa.
Abin baƙin ciki, shine kuma inda aka sarrafa ko lada na wucin gadi kamar barasa, nicotine, da ƙwayoyi suna da tasiri ma. Suna sace tsarin jin daɗi / sakamako.
A zahiri, lada na wucin gadi kamar hodar Iblis da barasa na iya haifar da jin daɗin jin daɗi fiye da jima'i. Masu bincike sun gano cewa nau'i-nau'i biyu, idan aka kwatanta da dabbobin da suka kasance masu lalata ta yanayi, sun fi dacewa da jaraba.
Danna maɓallin Tasirin Coolidge don sanin dalilin da yasa wannan babbar matsala ce don dorewar dangantakar soyayya.
Dogaro da amincewa suna da muhimmanci. Mu sau da yawa muna so mu nuna ƙauna ta wurin jikinmu kamar ta damuwa, sumbacewa, caressing, dawa da kuma yin jima'i. Ƙaunar ƙaunar "ta shawo kan mugun dabba" kuma yana warke sosai. Ma'aurata da dangantaka mai kama da juna ta jiki cikin jiki warkar sauri bayan rauni. Ko muna tunanin ƙaunar da ake nufi da 'ƙauna,' ko kuma son zuciya da sha'awar sha'awa, waɗannan ji da motsin zuciyarmu suna da farko a kwakwalwa. Saboda haka ta hanyar koyon yadda za mu iya yadda kwakwalwa zata aiki zai taimaka mana mu sami irin wadannan motsin zuciyarmu a cikin hanyoyi na al'ada.
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